My mother always says that all the women from our family are strong and independent and to be honest until few weeks ago I was pretty sure that I was adopted.
It looks like sometimes all you need is a few minutes to think about the way you managed to get out from different,difficult situations.Go through every single word you wish you didn’t say, every single act you wish you didn’t do and try to change them in your mind. Create a scene inside of your head, a scene where everything works out just like you wanted. This is how you find out which are your flaws and your strengths.
Due to my lack of self-confidence that’s what I’ve been doing lately but I’ve noticed that actually I was not the one doing things in the wrong way. I thought that holding all your anger inside in a confrontation and bending your head in front of the opponent are signs of weakness, Well this isn’t true! It’s more like: You speak now but I’ll show you later.
It’s so easy to talk. I can do that too but it’s not gonna prove anything (besides the fact that I’m being arrogant). Every time I hear people pretending they are something that they are not I find out more of who I am. From every single situation I gather crumbs of wisdom and now I can only say that my mother was right and I’m proud to be part of the family.
Weak people revenge, strong people forgive, intelligent people ignore. I bet many of you have heard this before but can you be honest to yourself and tell in which category do you fit in?
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